Bondage.

Even reading the word alone makes you shift awkwardly in your seat and clear your throat. It's okay if you're still a little nervous about it.
BDSM is becoming more and more popular since the launch of EL James' "Fifty Shades..." novels, but for some reason some people it's still a taboo subject.
If you feel that way, maybe we wouldn't get on. Maybe you shouldn't even be reading this. Honestly it's okay, go back to your cup of tea, climb back into your vanilla sheets and lay your sweet head down. Leave the exploration to me.

We started off fairly basic, a little light restraining, a spanking session here and there. Then slowly we introduced pink PVC bondage tape, an idea borrowed from a sexually-deviant housemate, and then there was a time we used a tie that my partner had paid £140.00 for from Paul Smith. We by-passed poorly made handcuffs, and progressed swiftly onto our newest venture; cable ties. Yep, plastic, DIY cable ties.
(NB; be careful when using cable ties. You have to leave enough space to get the scissors in between the cable and whichever body part you deem appropriate, otherwise this could be more dangerous than you had in mind when it comes to cutting them off.)

So, yes I will admit to being willing to explore, with someone I love and trust, however - we have rules. Obviously we have rules. He doesn't put it where I don't want it, and I don't mark him. We've all got our own limits and having a relationship like I do, let's me delve into exactly where mine, and his, are.
Trust and the ability to have open conversations about sex are vital to having any kind of sexual relationship; especially when you're pushing limits and playing with fire.

Of course, I don't mean literally playing with fire. Or do I?