Monday 31 October 2016

Buying Bouquets...


MA Graduation 2016.
Flowers are a strange thing. Some people have some in the house all the time, my Mum will normally have some, especially if there’s been a particularly nice bunch in Asda that week, but I rarely do. Unless it’s been a special occasion and someone’s bought them for me, I’m very unlikely to buy myself flowers unless they’re cheap-and-cheerful, £1 a bunch, daffodils. 

I’ve received three bunches of flowers this year, from what I can remember, but none made me smile more than the most recent bunch. Let me set the scene for you… 

I was at work, on a cloudy Thursday afternoon, just having come back from my lunch break, I’ve got that post-lunch sleepy vibe going on. Sam, my supervisor comes into the Stock Room (where I was loitering, putting off doing any work) and says there’s someone here to see me. Immediately ,I go into panic mode; which customer have I offended, or given the wrong change to…
But no, no. As I followed Sam back out onto the shop floor, I was met with an older man with fluffy white hair that I definitely did not recognise. It was then he held up a bag of a bouquet of flowers and said “…these must be for you then.” 

Having someone send you flowers at work is one of the most simultaneously embarrassing and blissful things that can happen. If someone can make someone else’s day (for day, read week/month) simply by sending flowers, why not do it? I think we should all make use of local florists more. Knowing that someone went to the effort to call, or find a website, pick out some flowers, and have them sent to you, even if they’re 100 miles away or 10 minutes down the street, really can change your whole outlook around. 

We don’t have to start sending flowers out willy-nilly, flowers picked up at the local store on your way to visit a friend or relative count too. If seeing you for that visit that weekend wasn’t enough, now they’ve got flowers to remind them that you made the effort to visit and cared enough to think of them, that they might like a bunch of happiness. 

I guess, all I’m trying to say is that sending flowers isn’t just for funerals, commiserations, or apologies. Send them in happy times too, or even with no occasion what so ever because ‘just because’ is always enough! Boyfriends, buy your girlfriends flowers. Girlfriends, send your Mum's flowers. Buy anyone/everyone flowers, because sometimes we all need a little pick me up. 


Look at me, getting all soppy now… 

Birthday 2016. 
Valentines 2016. 


Tuesday 25 October 2016

Autumn Brings A Change

Hello Autumn,

I've been dragging my feet and reminiscing of long Summers days; whiling away the time in the sunshine, cocktails on rooftops and snoozing on beaches. However, Autumn is quickly turning into Winter and before it does, I'd like to take the time to embrace this season.

I'm looking forward to dog-walking in the park with leaves crunching under my Converse, windswept hair and crisp, but bright, Autumn mornings.

Today I've updated the What Lexy Said theme to Autumn, but in doing so, I had to pick just one for the header. I still want to use all the lovely pictures that the lovely Alex Thornber took, so I'm going to put them here. Hopefully they give you all the Autumn feels required for October.